Formerly known as Easy Comes Easy Goes 2.0. I am a Malaysian who loves Hollywood but has never set foot there. My interests = Anything that interests you including Hollywood, Bollywood and Clint Eastwood. Thanks for reading folks. This blog contains 100% true postings, based on established international media reports and reputable trustworthy sources. No lies or fabrications included. Cheers.
Kuala Sepetang is a sleepy town in Perak, Malaysia. But suddenly one fine day, the town has got a rude awakening. Kuala Sepetang sprung up when an unexpected guest showed up - a 170 kilogramme of soild mass, 4 legged with long sharp tail killer beast. The 3.6 metre long crocodile was found by local fishermen entangled in their net near Sungai Tiram in Terong, about 80 kilometre from Ipoh.
It took the might of several fishermen to tie the creature and safely bring it to shore.
Perak Wildlife Protection and National Parks Department director Shabrina Shariff said the crocodile, Crocodylus porosus, was a protected species under the Wildlife Protection Act 972.
“It is a healthy adult crocodile and it took about 12 men to lift it into our truck,” she said yesterday.
“The crocodile was released into its habitat later,” Shabrina said, adding that it took about an hour to get it back into the river.
At first sight - the guy seen seen here with Amber Chia, looked like Malaysia's no.1 Badminton player - Dato Lee Chong Wei!!! Am i right???
This is Adrian Wong, the man of the moment. He is the husband of the gorgeous, glamorous, sexy and beautiful Malaysian supermodel, Amber Chia. Hey Adiran, congrats. Please teach us the art of wooing the heart of one of the most beautiful women in Malaysia. Please sir... we are eager to learn from you!!!
Supermodel Amber Chia’s husband is her manager and business partner, Adrian Wong.
The newly-weds met journalists in Kuala Lumpur on March 30th, 2010 to reveal the identity of “Mr Amber Chia”, after keeping mum on the issue since their wedding in Bali, Indonesia, on 25 March 2010.
Wong, 36, has two children from a previous marriage.
“We decided to come out because we want people to stop speculating,” Chia told The Daily Chilli.
“We don’t want things to go out of control. We’re sorry if we shocked a lot of people, including our own friends, but we’re just two people in love who would like to keep things private,” the Malaysian supermodel said apologetically.
“We were looking for a more appropriate time to make it public. Please understand that he’s not a celebrity and he’s not used to the limelight like I am,” Chia added.
On accusations from some parties that she was a “home-wrecker”, Chia said: “Never. By the time I got to know Adrian and eventually fall in love with him, he was officially divorced from his wife.”
Wong, a business graduate from Melbourne University, spent 10 years in Australia and was the founder and director of Absolute Entertainment, the event management company responsible for bringing the Pussycat Dolls and Andy Lau to Malaysia.
He currently has business interests in Hong Kong and Malaysia.
Wong popped the question five-and-a-half months ago after courting Chia for a year and a half.
Inilah wajah Adrian Wong, suami kepada supermodel Amber Chia
Selepas dikejutkan dengan berita perkahwinannya pada 25 Mac lalu, ramai yang tertanya siapa gerangan lelaki yang berjaya menambat hati supermodel terkenal Malaysia, si gadis jelita Amber Chia?
Teka-teki itu berakhir semalam apabila Amber, 28, bersama suami tampil berhadapan media. Rupa-rupanya suami Amber dan lelaki yang bertuah itu adalah Adrian Wong, 36, yang dikenali di kalangan media sebagai bekas pengasas Absolute Entertainment, sebuah syarikat pengurusan acara yang sebelum ini bertanggungjawab menganjurkan konsert Pussycat Dolls dan penyanyi popular Hong Kong, Andy Lau di ibu negara.
Saling mengenali sejak enam tahun lalu, Adrian, duda beranak dua, dikatakan telah melamarnya kira-kira lima bulan lalu. Dalam pertemuan itu juga, Amber turut meluahkan hasratnya untuk bergelar ibu sebelum usia 30 tahun.
Hmmm.. dalam jutaan lelaki di dunia yang menyimpan hasrat nak berkahwin dengan Amber, hanya Adrian Wong yang betul betul bertuah..!!! Syabas Adrian.. apa rahsia anda hingga berjaya memikat hati gadis jelita dan supermodel terkenal Malaysia??
Kongsilah sikit rahsia tu... banyak jejaka dan lelaki bujang dan lelaki duda di sini yang nak belajar ilmu anda!!!! hehehe
Gambar Dato Siti Nurhaliza dan Artikel ini dipetik dari portal hiburan Gua.com.my
Hmmm... nampkanya artis tempatan kita tidak sunyi daripada gossip, isu dan kontrovesi.
Di sana sini, ada sahaja isu yang dicetuskan media hiburan tempatan, samada media arus perdana mahupun media alternatif iaitu portal hiburan internet.
Apa sahaja perkembangan berkaitan artis popular kita, samada berita gembira atau berita sedih atau isu peribadi, sentiasa disensasikan oleh media serta di blog dan laman sembang internet oleh peminat setia artis berkenaan.
Terbaru, isu artis "membeli" media. "Membeli" dalam konteks ini adalah perbuatan memberikan wartawan hiburan dengan hadiah dan ganjaran tak kira dalam apa bentuk, supaya artis itu sentiasa mendapat liputan, sekaligus sentiasa mendapat publisiti, sekaligus mereka sentiasa popular di kalangan peminat seni tanah air.
Ini kerana tanpa publisiti, peminat tak tahu perkembangan artis itu, serta juga mungkin melupakan artis itu. Lihatlah artis yang jarang masuk akhbar, radio, tv dan portal berita hiburan internet, sudah tentu mereka dilihat kurang popular. Ini jauh berbeza berbanding artis yang selalu muncul di TV, berkumandang di radio dan menghiasi dada akhbar media arus perdana serta juga portal internet, begitu juga laman sembang sosial internet.
Apapun, bagi saya, naluri wartawan itu sebenarnya adalah sentiasa mendapatkan berita artis popular sahaja, kerana bila berita artis popular disiarkan, sudah pasti akhbar atau program TV yang menampilkan berita artis popular itu, akan lebih laris dan ditonton lebih ramai penonton.
Berita mengenai artis nombor 1 negara, akan lebih bernilai berbanding berita mengenai artis no. 100 negara. Itulah hakikatnya dalam persada media bukan sahaja di Malaysia, malahan di Amerika Syarikat, England, Itali dan seluruh dunia, kecuali di Kutub Utara dan Kutub Selatan dan Stesen Angkasa Lepas Antarabangsa atau I-S-S kerana di sana terdapat sedikit sahaja manusia.
Berita mengenai artis boleh dilihat dalam konteks liputan berita politik, sudah pasti wartawan akan tertumpu kepada majlis yang dirasmikan pemimpin nombor satu negara iaitu YAB Perdana Menteri ataupun pemimpin nombor 2 negara iaitu YAB Timbalan Perdana Menteri. Diikuti menteri menteri kabinet yang berpotfolio penting, mengikut hieraki, jawatan dan juga isu semasa.
Oleh sebab itu, jarang kita lihat liputan berita kepada YB yang hanya memegang jawatan Setiausaha Parlimen ataupun Ahli Parlimen atau Ahli Dewan Undangan Negeri biasa sahaja dan tidak mempunyai jawatan penting.
Kecualilah ada isu sensasi sepertimana yang berlaku kepada Ahli Parlimen Kinabatangan, Datuk Bung Moktar Radin baru baru ini. Datuk Bung Moktar diburu media politik dan juga media hiburan setelah tersebar berita dia berkahwin dengan pelakun Zizie Ezzete. Bung Moktar tidak memegang sebarang jawatan dalam kabinet persekutuan, namun dia popular di kalangan media kerana isu isu panas termasuk perbahasan panas di Parlimen.
Nah.. artikel di bawah saya petik dari gua.com mengenai penyanyi popular masa kini, Dato Siti Nurhaliza Tarudin berhubung isu "beli" wartawan. Kita sama sama baca ya...
Sejak kebelakangan ini, isu wartawan hiburan yang kononnya tidak beretika hangat diperkatakan. Ramai individu yang meluahkan rasa tidak puas hati dengan sikap sesetengah wartawan yang dianggap oleh mereka keterlaluan kerana sanggup mengaibkan golongan artis.
Rentetan daripada isu ini, diva nombor satu negara, Dato’ Siti Nurhaliza turut terkena tempias. Ada peminat di luar sana mendakwa Siti kurang menjadi mangsa gosip kerana beliau telah ‘membeli’ wartawan dengan menyogok wang dan pelbagai hadiah yang lain.
Dakwaan ini sedikit-sebanyak membuatkan ramai peminat Siti di luar sana kurang senang dan mereka ingin tahu sama ada perkara itu berlaku atau tidak. Untuk kepastian, GUA telah mendapatkan penjelasan daripada isteri kesayangan Datuk K ini.
“Banyaknya duit Siti hendak bayar semua wartawan,” itu komen pertama keluar daripada mulut Siti apabila diajukan tentang perkara ini. Menurut Siti lagi, dia tidak pernah mengamalkan perkara tersebut sebaliknya dia cuba menjalinkan hubungan baik dengan wartawan. Baginya, artis dan wartawan saling memerlukan.
“Jika kita tahu berbudi bahasa, orang lain juga akan menghormati kita. Siti anggap semua wartawan macam kawan Siti. Sebab itu kami mempunyai hubungan yang baik. Bukan kerana Siti telah ‘membeli’ mereka.
“Kalau peminat mendakwa Siti tidak pernah menjadi mangsa gosip atau kutukan, perkara itu tidak betul. Siti telah lalui semua itu. Tetapi Siti terima itu semua sebagai asam garam dalam kehidupan seorang artis. Paling penting, kena bijak menghadapinya dan pandai membawa diri,” jelas Siti.
Sebagai anak seni yang sudah berbelas tahun bergelumang dalam industri, Siti turut diminta mengulas tentang sikap sesetengah artis baru yang tidak boleh disentuh atau ditegur oleh pihak media sehingga sanggup menyerang balas dengan cara yang tidak sepatutnya.
“Apa yang boleh Siti katakan, sebagai seorang artis kita kena pandai bawa diri dan sentiasa bersedia menghadapi cabaran. Memang banyak dugaan yang terpaksa dihadapi terutamanya apabila berhadapan dengan media. Tetapi kita kena pandai sebab itu karier kita. Tidak perlulah melatah atau terlalu mengikut emosi sehingga boleh menjejaskan perjalanan karier,” ujar Siti yang ditemui selepas sidang media Anugerah Industri Muzik ke-17 baru-baru ini.
Walaupun Siti pernah dikecam hebat oleh media kerana keputusannya untuk berkahwin dengan Datuk K tidak lama dahulu, tetapi penyanyi nombor satu negara ini tidak pernah menyimpan dendam dengan mana-mana pihak. Sebab itulah, dia tidak menyokong kewujudan sebuah laman web yang menghentam dan menghina sebahagian wartawan hiburan.
“Sebenarnya Siti belum lagi sempat melihat laman web tersebut tetapi Siti tahu tentang kewujudannya. Siti pun tidak tahu apa agenda orang yang buat laman web ini. Mungkin dia ada masalah peribadi dengan seseorang. Pada pendapat Siti, tidak perlulah buat begitu kerana ia tidak mendatangkan apa-apa kebaikan pun,” ujar Siti terus-terang.
Lagenda bolasepak dunia dari Argentina, Diego Maradona dilaporkan digigit anjing peliharaannya.
Ekoran kejadian itu, Maradona dilaporkan media Argentina perlu melalui satu pembedahan kecil bagi membetulkan kecederaan pada bahagian atas mulutnya.
Maradona dijangka keluar dari klinik hari ini dan keadaannya dilaporkan stabil.
Ketika insiden berkenaan, Maradona dilaporkan sedang bermain dengan anjing “Shar Pei” di kediamannya di Ezeiza, Buenos Aires, Argentina.
Sidang media mengenai keadaan terkini Maradona akan diadakan hari ini Rabu 31 Mac 2010.
Maradona membantu Argentina menjulang Piala Dunia 1986 di Mexico, menewaskan Jerman Barat 3-2 di final di Stadium Azteca.
Kejohanan Piala Dunia 1986 itu turut diingati dengan insiden Hand of God dan jaringan solo Maradona ketika Argentina menewaskan England 2-1 di suku akhir.
Maradona kini jurulatih kebangsaan Argentina dalam mengharungi cabaran Piala Dunia 2010 di Afrika Selatan, bermula Jun ini.
Exactly 29 years ago on 30th March 1981, the world was stunned when Ronald Reagan, the then 40th. President of the United States was shot by a lone and deranged gunman, John Hinckley Jr. The mentally unstable Hinckley apparently did that unthinkable act for one crazy and mad reason - to impress his woman - popular US Actress Jodie Foster.
Reagan, the former movie star, survived the assassination attempt and continued as the most powerful man on earth and number one man at the White House until 1989. Reagan died of natural cause on June 5, 2004 at the age of 93.
Hinckley is of course locked up in jail until now and the love of his life - Jodie Foster continued to be a successful box-office actress without even giving a damn on Hinckley.
The assassination attempt occurred on March 30, 1981, just 69 days into the presidency of Ronald Reagan. While leaving a speaking engagement at the Washington Hilton Hotel in Washington, D.C., President Reagan and three others were shot and wounded by Hinckley.
Reagan at that time, 70 years old, suffered a punctured lung, but prompt medical attention allowed him to recover quickly despite his age. At that time, the vice president was George Bush Sr.
We know that 2 US Presidents, Abraham Lincoln and John F. Kennedy died after being assassinated. Lincoln was shot by on April 1865 by John Wilkes Booth and Kennedy was snipered to death on November 22nd, 1963 by unknown gunman/gunmen, albeit the blame was put on Lee Harvey Oswald, who insisted his innocence until Oswald himself was shot by Jack Ruby before Oswald could stand trial.
The March 30th, 1981 event that stunned the world started on before 2:30 PM local time, as Reagan walked out of the hotel's T Street North West exit toward his waiting car, surrounded by of course secret services agents and police officers.
Despite the tight security, Hinckley, emerged from the crowd of admirers and fired a Röhm RG-14 .22 calibre blue steel revolver six times in a span of three seconds.
The first bullet hit White House Press Secretary James Brady in the head.The second hit District of Columbia police officer Thomas Delahanty in the back. The third overshot the president and hit the window of a building across the street. The fourth hit Secret Service agent Timothy McCarthy in the abdomen. The fifth hit the bullet-resistant glass of the window on the open side door of the president's limousine.
The sixth and final bullet ricocheted off the side of the limousine and hit the president in his left armpit, grazing a rib and lodging in his lung, stopping nearly an inch from his heart.
Secret Service agents sprang into action, rushing at Hinckley with guns drawn and pulling him to the ground. Agent Dennis McCarthy dove onto Hinckley as others threw him to the ground. Secret Service agent Robert Wanko took an Uzi from a briefcase and used it to cover the Presidential Limousine's evacuation.
Sixteen minutes after the assassination attempt, the ATF found that the gun had been purchased at Rocky's Pawn Shop in Dallas, Texas. It had been loaded with six "Devastator"-brand .22LR cartridges, which contained small lead azide explosive charges designed to explode on contact. The rounds were not manufactured in the U.S. because any bullet which contained actual explosives would have been classified as an illegal explosive device under U.S. federal law.
All six bullets failed to explode. One wonder what happened next if the lone bullet that hit Reagan, exploded. Who will be the next president? Will Sadam Hussein still be alive? Will Barack Obama be the current US President?? We don't know.
Who was to blame for the serious security breach that it was so easy for someone to just stand near the President (the most powerful man in the world) and shoot him at close range?? The secret service agents? The local police? The FBI ? The CIA ? or Jodie Foster??
The entire incident was captured on video by at least five cameramen, including all of the major broadcast networks.
Hinckley even had the gut to ask the arresting officers whether that night's Academy Awards ceremony would be postponed due to the shooting, and indeed it was — it aired the next evening. Screw him!!
President Reagan was swiftly taken to the nearby George Washington University Hospital.
Dr Joseph Giordano, treated Reagan with intravenous fluids, oxygen, tetanus toxoid, and chest tubes.
President Reagan was known as a very charismatic and humorous US President who ever lived. Despite in great pain and his life in grave danger, Reagan told his wife, First Lady Nancy Reagan who arrived in the emergency room "Honey, I forgot to duck."
Reagan lost over half of his blood volume, so an emergency surgery was unevitable.
In the operating room, just before surgery Reagan again joked, "Please tell me you're all Republicans." To which Giordano, a liberal Democrat, replied, "Today Mr. President we're all Republicans."!!!!!!!!!!
The operation took 3 hours and Reagan lived.
Young Reagan as a Hollywood movie star
Hinckley was found not guilty by reason of insanity on June 21, 1982. The defense psychiatric reports had found him to be insane, while the prosecution reports declared him legally sane.Following his lawyers' advice, he declined to take the stand in his own defense.Hinckley was confined at St. Elizabeths Hospital in Washington, D.C., where he is still being held.
After his trial, he wrote that the shooting was "the greatest love offering in the history of the world", and did not indicate any regrets. (i personally feel that Hinckley should be shot with a Machine Gun right between his eyes for what he did, but sometimes justice is blind and justice is injustice)
The motivation behind Hinckley's attack stemmed from an obsession with Jodie Foster due to erotomania. While living in Hollywood in the late 1970s, Hinckley saw the film Taxi Driver at least 15 times, apparently identifying strongly with Travis Bickle, the lead character played by who else but the Supa Dupa Robert De Niro.
The arc of the story involves Bickle's attempts to protect a 12-year-old child prostitute, played by Foster, toward the end of the film, Bickle attempts to assassinate a United States Senator who is running for president.
Over the following years, Hinckley trailed Foster around the country, going so far as to enroll in a writing course at Yale University in 1980 when he learned that she was a student there after reading an article in People magazine. He wrote numerous letters and notes to her and called her twice and refused to give up when she indicated that she was not interested in him.
Convinced that by becoming a national figure he would be Foster's equal, Hinckley began to stalk then-President Jimmy Carter — his decision to target presidents was also likely inspired by Taxi Driver who shot a US Presidential candidate.
24 year old, Hoong Hua Seng from Banting, Selangor, Malaysia was probably standing or seated next to the suicide bomber in the Moscow metro train, but he and a fellow Malaysian student escaped the blast, thanks to gut-feeling.
Video above showed the aftermath after the train subway tragedy in Moscow, Russia. 2 explosions ripped through Moscow's underground metro train system, as it was jam-packed with rush-hour passengers on Monday 29 March 2010, killing 39 people and injuring at least 40 others. Officials said female suicide bombers are behind the double blasts twin attacks.
Commuters injured by a bomb blast at the Park Kultury subway station in Moscow wait for medical care just outside the station shortly after the explosion Monday, March 29, 2010.
Police are put on high alert after Monday's subway blasts. Russian Prime Minister Vladimir Putin vowed Tuesday to "drag out of the sewer" the masterminds of the twin suicide bombing of the Moscow subway system that killed 39 people and left scores wounded. Russia observes a national day of mourning.
People lay flowers and grieve at the site of an explosion at the Park Kultury subway station in Moscow. Flowers overflowed Tuesday from tables in two Moscow subway stations in memory of the 39 passengers killed in the tragedy as Russia observes a national day of mourning.
Russian President Dmitry Medvedev lays flowers at the Lubyanka Subway station platform.
U.S. Ambassador John Beyrle lays flowers at the sight of a explosion at Lubyanka subway station in Moscow, Russia, Tuesday, March 30, 2010.
Valentina Yegiazarian who lost her granddaughter Valentina, a student, in the subway blast, cries after an identification procedure and seen outside a morgue in central Moscow on Tuesday, March 30, 2010. Monday's attacks shocked a country that had grown accustomed to such violence being confined to a restive southern corner, and marked the return of terrorism to the everyday lives of Muscovites after a six-year break.
An Emergency Ministry psychologist, right, helps a woman after an identification procedure outside a morgue in central Moscow on Tuesday, March 30, 2010.
Russian state flag is half staff over Moscow's Kremlin on Tuesday, March 30, 2010.
Clergymen conduct a religious service for those killed in subway explosions at Christ the Saviour Cathedral in Moscow, Russia, Tuesday, March 30, 2010.
People stand at the sight of the explosion at Lubyanka subway station in Moscow.
Commuters pass by the flowers laying at the Lubyanka Subway station.
MOSCOW, Russia, Tuesday, 30th March 2010 : A gut feeling saved final-year medical student from Banting, Selangor, Malaysia, Hoong Hua Sheng (pic above) and his coursemate Sim Eih Xing from almost certain death in the second blast that rocked Moscow at the Park Kultury metro station.
Hoong was travelling onboard the train when he suddenly decided to get off at the station, seven stations before their stop at Moscow Medical Academy.
Just as the two stepped out of the train, the coach exploded. The suicide bomber had been among the commuters in the coach.
The Moscow Medical Academy student said he had felt uneasy after hearing of the first blast which happened 45 minutes earlier at the Lubyanka station.
When the train stopped at the Park Kultury metro station at about 8.30am, Hoong pulled Sim, who was with him in the train, out of the packed coach.
“I was reading a book but I had a bad feeling ... that a second blast could occur.
“I just called out to Sim to get out of the train. When the doors opened, we quickly got off,’’ he added.
“True enough, just as we were walking away, the coach we were in exploded. There were people screaming. We were really, really lucky,” he told The Star in a telephone interview.
Hoong said they tried to stay calm and find a way out from the underground metro to the street.
“It was chaotic as the attack happened during rush hour,” said Hoong, who was on his way to a surgery lecture.
Hoong said he shuddered to think that the suicide bomber could have been really near him in the wagon.
“But I do not recall seeing anyone suspicious,’’ added the 24-year-old student from Banting.
Hoong only had his hair slighty singed from the explosion while Sim suffered injuries to his left leg.
“Sim is okay. I took him to the ambulance after we got out of the station but as the staff had their hands full, we were told to walk to the nearby hospital,” he said.
Hoong said there were other Malaysian students on the same train but they too escaped unhurt.
Well, this is very true. Sometimes instincts or gut feelings or sheer luck, saved us.
We have heard of countless reports and cases of people around the world who were saved when the flights or ships or trains that they were supposed to board, crashed, sunk or derailed. God Bless..
source - the star online, Russia Today and Associated Press
Artikel ini saya dapat ketika melayari internet menerusi google dengan tajuk seks melayu. Salah satu artikel ini didapati daripada http://permataseks.blogspot.com
Saya tidak tahu siapa penulisnya, namun apa yang ditulis memang amat benar sekali iaitu berkaitan petua seks bagi pasangan suami isteri.
Sebahagian ayat dan perkataan dalam artikel asal telah saya ubah supaya bunyinya lebih sopan dan lebih mudah difahami. Ada juga bait bait ayat yang saya tulis sendiri, untuk menyedapkan lagi artikel ini.
Artikel itu ditulis kerana masih ada suami dan isteri di luar sana yang belum mencapai tahap cemerlang dalam subjek asmara dan hubungan seksual suami isteri. Ada yang setakat lulus ngam ngam sahaja. Oleh itu bacalah artikel ini jika ada masa terluang.
Menerusi pembacaan artikel petua seks di internet, saya dapati bahawa hmmm.. menarik juga cara cara dan petua bercumbu rayu yang ditulis... Pendek kata.. Kita perlu mencumbui pasangan kita ketika berasmara sebelum melakukan hubungan suami isteri.
Ikuti petua ini. Tapi ingat dan awassss!! Tips seks orang Melayu dan orang Malaysia ini hanyalah kepada pasangan yang sudah menjalin ikatan sah dari segi agama sebagai Suami Isteri.
Gambar gambar wanita dalam artikel ini pula hanyalah gambar hiasan dan tiada kaitan dengan sesiapa samada yang masih hidup atau telah meninggalkan dunia ini.
Artikel ini juga tiada kaitan dengan sesiapa, sekadar bacaan sahaja.
Cumbuan sebelum seks adalah suatu usaha membangkitkan nafsu berahi wanita agar bersiap-sedia untuk mencapai kenikmatan bersama dalam bersetubuh. Kenikmatan itu dapat dicapai oleh suami isteri bilamana nafsu berahi keduanya telah memuncak dan kemudian disusuli dengan melakukan hubungan seksual.
Hendaklah ingat bahawa keinginan seksual wanita adalah sangat dalam dan lebih luas dari lelaki. Dapat dikatakan seluruh tubuh wanita merupakan titik ghairah iaitu dari hujung rambut sampai ke hujung kaki.
Jadi titik-titik ghairah yakni bahagian-bahagian tubuh yang sensitif pada rangsangan pada tubuh wanita sangat luas tersebar di seluruh anggota badannya. Antaranya bibir, tengkuk, cuping telinga, buah dada atau payu dara, leher dan perut, semuanya mudah untuk dirangsang.
Oleh kerana lokasinya yang tersebar luas di merata badan dan kompleks, maka nafsu berahi wanita lambat timbul sehingga ia perlu dibangunkan terlebih dahulu sebelum seks atau persetubuhan itu dilakukan.
Berbeza dengan lelaki, maka titik ghairahnya terbatas pada beberapa tempat tertentu sahaja. Oleh sebab itu seseorang lelaki lebih mudah naik nafsu berahinya terutama melalui pandangan matanya.
Keberahiannya cepat sekali terangsang apabila mata lelaki melihat kecantikan bahagian-bahagian wanita yang biasanya tertutup. Rangsangan inilah yang menyebabkan alat kelamin lelaki mengeras dan tegang serta siap sedia untuk melakukan hubungan seksual.
Oleh kerana terdapatnya perbezaan tabiat seksual antara lelaki dan wanita, maka seorang suami sebelum bersetubuh hendaklah bercumbuan dahulu. Pertama, lakukanlah rayuan dengan kata-kata manis dan mesra, memuji kecantikannya, keseksian tubuhnya, kata-kata yang menawan hati dan yang sebagainya. Kesemua ini bertujuan untuk mengusik rohaninya agar ghairah untuk melakukan persetubuhan.
Setelah rohaninya terangsang kemudian eloklah disusuli dengan usikan fizikal jasmani seperti bercium-ciuman, beraba-rabaan pada bahagian-bahagian tubuhnya, serta menggosok-gosok badannya.
Malahan, dalam ajaran agama pun, umat diajar mengenai aspek bercumbuan di kalangan pasangan suami isteri, yakni kita tidak boleh menggauli isteri kita secara terus atau secara tiba tiba sahaja, ataupun main terkam sahaja, tanpa melakukan proses cumbu rayu terlebih dahulu.
Seorang suami haruslah mengetahui titik ghairah isterinya, seperti berikut:
Kening Bahagian pelupuk mata Hidung Pipi dan sekitarnya Tengkuk Leher Cuping dan belakang telinga Payudara Bibir dan lidah Bahagian dalam mulut Peha dan sekitarnya Bahagian perut terutama sekitar pusat Bahagian alat kelamin Bahagian tumit
Sayugia diingatkan, wanita mempunyai titik ghairah paling sensitif di lokasi berbeza. Sebagai contoh mudah, wanita A mungkin amat ghairah apabila payu daranya dicumbui, namun wanita B pula cukup berahi apabila tengkuknya dicium pasangannya. Sebaliknya wanita C pula akan merengek dengan penuh kenikmatan apabila bahagian pehanya dicium dan dibelai oleh suaminya.
Bahagian-bahagian ini merupakan titik-titik ghairah yang harus dijadikan perhatian semasa merangsang, sama ada diraba, dibelai, dicium atau digosok-gosokkan secara lembut dan mesra. Di sinilah sangat diperlukan kepekaan seorang suami untuk membangkitkan rasa berahi isteri sehingga klimaks yang diingini.
Ada lelaki yang mencumbui isterinya dari hujung rambut sampai ke hujung kaki, ada dari hujung rambut sampai ke perut sahaja, ada dari tumit sehingga ke peha sahaja, ada mengusap usap di tengkuk dan mengucup bibir sahaja, malahan ada juga mencumbui dari bahagian hujung jari kaki hinggalah ke hujung rambut isterinya (proses ini dikenali sebagai proses Osmosis atau Reverse-takeover - hehehe gurau aja dong).
Tak kisahlah apa caranya, asalkan lelaki dan wanita itu sama sama terangsang dan sedia melakukan hubungan suami isteri dengan penuh nikmat hinggalah mencapai aura klimaks, kerana sesungguhnya ini mengeratkan kasih sayang suami isteri.
Si Suami pula tidak perlu lagi main kayu tiga dan mencari perempuan lain kerana isterinya sudah memainkan peranan sebagai isteri di atas ranjang, sehinggakan si suami terbaring dengan penuh kepuasan selepas sesi asmara.
Sebenarnya terdapat pelbagai cara sentuhan seperti meraba-raba, meramas dan sebagainya dengan bersilih ganti, yang dapat membangkitkan rasa kehangatan cinta.
Ini diikuti pula dengan cumbuan serta rayuan yang berguna untuk membangkitkan nafsu berahi isteri. Cara-cara ini merupakan hal biasa diamalkan di kalangan mereka yang menghargai nilai seni dalam dunia seks. Semua ini merupakan tahap-tahap cumbuan (foreplay) yang mempunyai daya untuk meningkatkan tahap kenikmatan seksual kepada yang seluas-luasnya.
Mengingati betapa pentingnya merayu sebelum bersetubuh bahkan bukan sahaja manusia begitu , binatang-binatang pun berbuat begitu. Cubalah kita perhatikan kucing, ayam jantan atau kambing. Bagaimana mereka melakukan seks (mengawan)? Pastinya ia akan merayu terlebih dahulu dengan gerakkan mengawan.
Kucing umpamanya, sebelum mengawan terlebih dahulu menggosok-gosok kelamin betina agak lama dengan disertai gigitan-gigitan pada lehernya. Ayam juga mengepak-ngepakkan sayapnya sambil berkokok berkali-kali dan menari menajak ayam betina sebelum mereka melakukan hubungan kelamin. Begitu juga kambing, burung merpati, dan sebagainya. Ia adalah hasil pemerhatian saintis-saintis kaji-laku binatang.
Jadi sungguh jauh ketinggalan bagi seorang insan bergelar suami untuk menyetubuhi isterinya dengan terburu-buru tanpa merayu dan cumbuan (foreplay), bahkan pula mereka seakan-akan main terkam begitu sahaja. Suami yang bijak tidak boleh lalai atau lupa melakukan cumbu-rayu sebelum bersetubuh. Setiap isteri dan semua wanita normal berkehendakkan kepada ini.
Picture this. You are a counsellor, handling teenagers daily problems. Then one fine day, suddenly a teenage girl asks you for sex guidance??
That exactly happened to a female counsellor at a youth service centre in Singapore.
She was asked questions on "how to make love" by a supposedly naive, innocent and of course still virgin 15 year old girl.
Media reported that the 15-year-old girl openly asked the counsellor to teach her about the proper way of having sex or the art of love making, so that she could sleep with her boyfriend.
The China Press daily said the female counsellor who is also the youth service centre director in Singapore said she was shocked upon receiving a letter written by the girl asking for advice on how to seduce her boyfriend.
“In the letter, she said all her friends in school have had the experience but not her, so she wanted to know how to ask her boyfriend for sex,” the counsellor said. The daily also quoted her as saying that most people who came for counselling on sex-related matters were boys and girls aged 13 and 14.
“Most of them already had experience making out and groping,” she said.
Singapore Parents Programme Society chief Wang Jing Yuan said a number of boys who had had sex told him that it was their young girlfriends who initiated and asked for it.
Girls - there is only one thing that you need to adhere here. If you ever get pregnant - do not, i repeat, do not kill or dump or throw away your baby. There are always millions of people out there who are more than willing or 1,000,000% willing to adopt and take care that baby. Very sad cases of babies being murdered, killed, dismemberd, mutilated or thrown away and eaten by animals by their heartless mothers, are widely reported almost daily, worldwide.
Babies are human beings too, just like us. They can feel the pain and sufferings. They need love and affections, just like you and me. They don't want pain, sufferings and misery, just like you and me. Please stop babies killings and babies dumpings. God Bless.
