Storm brews in Malaysia and also online over male Malaysian student’s ‘gay marriage’ in Dublin, Ireland

Ariff Alfian Rosli, 28, is now a famous name in Malaysia as well as in the internet and Gay communities. He is an instant celebrity for the wrong reasons, by marrying an Irish male by the name of Jonathan in Dublin, Ireland. Same sex marriage or Gay marriage is unheard of in Malaysia, a Muslim nation. It is a major offence, punishable with up to 20 years jail term.



Had Ariff Afian married this young and sexy Malaysian lady, then it would have been a different story. Nobody asks questions!


But Ariff chose the wrong partner as his lawful wife, a male Irish companion by the name of Jonathan. These are some of Ariff's happiest moments, captured on camera, inviting backlash and anger back home in Malaysia. What shocked Malaysians was that Ariff was wearing the Malaysian national costume, known as Baju Melayu.













Now after the news of the gay marriage spread like wildfire in Malaysia, it has triggered outrage online, with one Facebook group urging he be brought home to be “saved”.

The controversy erupted after pictures taken at Ariff Alfian Rosli’s same-sex civil union surfaced on the internet in the middle of December 2011, 3 years after the University College Dublin medical student was reported missing by his worried family in Malaysia.

In the photos, the 28-year-old could be seen wearing the Malaysian national costume, a black baju Melayu with kain samping while his partner — known only as Jonathan — wore a black tuxedo and green tie.

Local criticism of the same-sex union has been swift and harsh, with mainly Muslim users attacking Ariff Alfian on Twitter for straying from Islam and dishonouring his family.

“Ariff Alfian Rosli is a disgrace! Rot in hell!” user @DTOTHEZAK wrote on the popular micro-blogging site.

Another user, @shkyla, wrote: “Looking at those wedding pictures of Ariff Alfian, makes me want to vomit. Blergh, disgusting.”

Muslim groups have also been quick to condemn Ariff Alfian, with the Kepong Islamic Youth Organisation (PBIK) lodging a police report on 19th December 2011, over his alleged failure to adhere to Malaysia’s Islamic laws.

Other critics have taken a different tack, preferring instead to “rehabilitate” what they saw as a Muslim who had strayed far from the teachings of Islam.

This includes the Facebook group, “The Campaign to Bring Ariff Alfian Rosli Home to Malaysia to Save His Faith”, which was set up on 17th December 2011.

The campaign’s description of its goal reads: “As Malaysians, Malays and Muslims, other than condemning and cursing, we also have the alternative to support Ariff Alfian’s return to Malaysia so his faith can be restored to the true and noble path.”

The Prime Minister’s Office has also pledged to investigate the matter, and an Umno official is expected to arrive in Dublin to convince Ariff Alfian to return home.

Ariff Alfian, who left for Dublin eight years ago in 2003, on a Petronas (Malaysian national oil corporation) scholarship, has declined to say if he is involved in a civil partnership or a same-sex relationship.

“I feel I have been inadvertently thrust into the public eye. I just want to get by without upsetting anyone or causing any trouble. My overriding concern is for my family,” the Irish Times quoted him as saying.

He also denied claims he had converted out of Islam, stressing that his faith was unshaken and that he would remain a Muslim until the day he dies.

Ariff Alfian added that he had not “gone missing”, as both Irish and Malaysian authorities have been aware for several years that he was legally residing there.

He said he was in regular contact with most of his family but admitted he has not spoken to his father, retired naval officer Rosli Haron, since they fell out in 2009.

Petronas, which stopped sponsoring Ariff Alfian in 2009, is reportedly demanding repayment for the RM890,000 or 200,000 pound sterling it paid for his education in Ireland.

Well, Mr Ariff, if you want to come back to Malaysia, please bring along Mr Jonathan.

When the other woman turns out to be a man!!!

In Singapore, A 30-year-old woman who suspected her businessman husband of having an affair was shocked to discover that her rival was actually a man.

Sin Chew Daily reported yesterday that the woman had hired a private investigator to tail her husband after noticing a change in his attitude towards her.

According to the daily, the husband and his lover who has long flowing hair had gone to a secluded spot by the dockyard in Singapore to make out.

Upon being notified by the investigator, identified as Leong, the wife rushed to the scene hoping to catch the two of them in the act.

At the dockyard, Leong said he and the wife saw the car seat being lowered and the couple started to hug and kiss each other.

The wife ran to the car searching for the woman but could not find her.

She then asked Leong about the “woman” he saw in her husband’s car.

Puzzled, the investigator went over to check and was shocked to discover that the only two persons in the vehicle were men.

It turned out that the man’s lover was actually a cross-dresser, who was wearing a wig.

According to Leong, the husband would pick up a woman with long hair after work every day.

My say - the husband is a gay or bisexual !!! normal guy will make it out with a lady, not a man... that is why God created Eve, because Adam was so lonely as the sole human being on earth, millions of years ago...

Gay and male pregnancies..

First and foremost, what is Gay??

Gay are often described as Sexual orientation, behavior, and self-identification which are not necessarily aligned in a clear-cut fashion for a given individual.

Most people consider gay and homosexual to be synonyms. This is how, in fact, the Oxford English Dictionary defines it.

However, some consider gay to be a matter of self-identification, while homosexual refers to sexual orientation.

If a person engages in same-sex sexual encounters but does not self-identify as gay, terms such as 'closeted', 'discreet', or 'bi-curious' may be applied.

Conversely, a person may identify as gay without engaging in homosexual sex.

Possible choices include identifying as gay socially while choosing to be celibate or while anticipating a first homosexual experience.

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  By the mid-20th century, "gay" was well-established as an antonym for "straight" and to refer to the lifestyles of unmarried and/or unattached people.
• "Homosexual" was perceived as excessively clinical, especially since homosexuality was at that time designated as a mental illness, and "homosexual" was used by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) to denote men affected by this "mental illness.
  

Can gay lifestyle lead to male pregnancies??

• Men have long been fascinated with pregnancy and the ability to procreate sans female.
• Now, scientists have joined the speculators and begun to muse on the feasibility of human male pregnancy.
• They believe that male pregnancy is not beyond the realm of possibility: It could be done – in theory -- and would undoubtedly create its own unique and dangerous set of challenges.
  

Foreplay


First, to make his body receptive to a pregnancy, the man would need to be injected with female hormones.

These would be the same female hormones that infertility doctors administer to postmenopausal women who use donated eggs.




The Deed

Once the man had changed the chemistry of his body to a more feminine pH, he would need to be impregnated by means of in vitro fertilization.

After the embryo had been implanted in the man’s abdomen using laparoscopic surgery, scientists believe it would attach itself to the omentum, a fatty, blood rich tissue located near the intestines.

This would occur just as in a female ectopic pregnancy, when the embryo attaches within the fallopian tubes.

However, ectopic pregnancies usually are aborted as soon as they are diagnosed, because of the danger they pose to the mother and the unlikelihood of these fetuses being brought to term.

The Birth

A Caesarian section would be required in order to free the man’s little bundle of joy from the confines of his abdominal cavity.

This operation would be very dangerous for a man, with a high risk of serious internal hemorrhaging and infection.

The placenta would have to be left inside the man’s abdomen for fear of damaging internal organs. This would lead to a massive infection.

A man’s abdomen, unlike a woman’s womb, is not well-suited for pregnancy. Despite the risk, some men continue to fantasize about the pregnant life and the joys of child birth.

Mr. Lee, whose story can be found at Male Pregnancy, lives out his fantasy at the fictitious RYT Dwayne Medical Center – a sort of electronic art installation.

He has been expecting since December of 1999, and one suspects it will be a long while yet before any stork lands at the Lee residence.

As of yet, NO REAL MALE PREGNANCIES have occurred, but the idea continues to entice heterosexual couples with a way to share equally in childbirth and gay couples with the possibility of biological children.

But for now, male pregnancy is best left to the SEAHORSES...!!!